Why it exists
Some resources begin with things the founder realised they did not know, wanted to remember, wanted to handle differently, or learned through difficult circumstances.
The site is not a record of who was right or wrong. It is not a fathers’ rights site, a mothers’ rights site, a court strategy site or a place to prove a case.
Keep the lesson
Lived experience can inform a useful tool without turning private conflict into public content. Names, allegations, case details and blame do not belong here.
Use the experience.Remove the conflict.Keep the lesson.
Practical before performative
The aim is not to look like a good parent. The aim is to keep practising being one: listening, learning, preparing, regulating, repairing and growing.
Take what helps. Leave what doesn’t. Come back to the child.